http://divorcerecoveryadvice.com/divorce/complications-resulting-lateinlife-divorce/ Divorce Recovery Tips and Advice to Speed Your Way Achieving Your Own Happily Ever After Tue, 08 May 2012 14:22:32 +0000 hourly 1 http://divorcerecoveryadvice.com/divorce/complications-resulting-lateinlife-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-9503 Vita Sat, 20 Aug 2011 02:32:19 +0000 http://divorcerecoveryadvice.com/?p=434#comment-9503 My ex and I divorced in 2010 after almost 33 years of marriage.. I felt like the women who helped put her husband through law or medical school and as soon as he began to do well he finds someone else and divorces his wife for someone else. Though I don't feel I can ever trust him again. For for than 26 years my job paid more than his than I retired to stay home with our 10 year old adopted twin daughters.. He left when the girls were 16. He said he was depressed and needed a place of his own so he could work on his depression. A few months later he introduced a woman friend to one of our daughters at an Easter Brunch. Several months later she found out that he had met this woman 3 weeks before he had told us he was moving out. He now collects his retirement approx 60k and has a job which pays him upwards of 100K to 150K a year in addition to the retirement. Before he filed for divorce he talked me into using my ira to pay off one of the credit cards so we would have more $$$ for him to rent a place. I thought it was just for a few months so he could get help with his depression. Big mistake because about 6 months later he filed for divorce and that credit card was no longer part of the divorce financial statement. Not to mention I no longer had that portion of my IRA.. Now both girls live with me.. He no longer has to pay child support (they are almost 19) He does pay for Health Insurance (not sure how much longer).. and I support them for everything else with my retirement income. Ladies .. be aware that men are not the only ones who get taken in a divorce. Listen to your lawyer when she says .. You can get more than you are asking. My ex and I divorced in 2010 after almost 33 years of marriage.. I felt like the women who helped put her husband through law or medical school and as soon as he began to do well he finds someone else and divorces his wife for someone else. Though I don’t feel I can ever trust him again. For for than 26 years my job paid more than his than I retired to stay home with our 10 year old adopted twin daughters.. He left when the girls were 16. He said he was depressed and needed a place of his own so he could work on his depression. A few months later he introduced a woman friend to one of our daughters at an Easter Brunch. Several months later she found out that he had met this woman 3 weeks before he had told us he was moving out. He now collects his retirement approx 60k and has a job which pays him upwards of 100K to 150K a year in addition to the retirement. Before he filed for divorce he talked me into using my ira to pay off one of the credit cards so we would have more $$$ for him to rent a place. I thought it was just for a few months so he could get help with his depression. Big mistake because about 6 months later he filed for divorce and that credit card was no longer part of the divorce financial statement. Not to mention I no longer had that portion of my IRA.. Now both girls live with me.. He no longer has to pay child support (they are almost 19) He does pay for Health Insurance (not sure how much longer).. and I support them for everything else with my retirement income. Ladies .. be aware that men are not the only ones who get taken in a divorce. Listen to your lawyer when she says .. You can get more than you are asking.

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