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divorce tips

Divorce Advice: 3 Attributes That Help You Build A New Life

August 31, 2009

I found the information below on the web.  I couldn’t agree with it more …
•    Openness:
Be willing to share (but not over-do) what you are feeling and experiencing with others. Stay open and honest with friends and family. Sharing your emotions promotes healing.
•    Action:
Moving forward with your life implies a willingness to take action. [...]

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Good Divorce Advice: Be Careful on the Internet

August 18, 2009

The following ‘warning’ is information offered by a prominent law firm:
“Social networking sites can raise a wide range of problems for people working through divorce. For some people, the best solution is to simply avoid these sites entirely. You can deactivate your accounts and return once the terms of your divorce have been finalized.
However, for [...]

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Managing Your Anger Through Divorce

August 11, 2009

Divorce Magazine, shares some tips about how to manage your anger through your divorce, so that you don’t lash out, but rather, learn how to “tame” your anger:
1. Write it out where only you will read it.
2. Shout it out where only you will hear it.
3. Talk it out with a friend, therapist or support [...]

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Divorce Recovery Advice: Pain of Divorce

August 5, 2009

Moving beyond the pain of divorce – a spiritual view of recovery from divorce.
Author and speaker, Doug Billings has studied for the Catholic priesthood and earned two degrees. He refers to himself as a “wounded healer” and has shared examples and insights of how he overcame mistakes in his own life in his effort to [...]

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Divorce Recovery Advice: Your New Life After Divorce

July 28, 2009

After a divorce, we experience such self-doubt that we often try to protect what remains of our egos and do it by putting up a front to the outside world.  At first, it often feels that this outward show is making things easier for us. But what we soon find is that this mask – [...]

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Divorce Recovery Advice: Simple steps for weathering the storm after divorce

July 27, 2009

There is no possible way to be prepared for a divorce. You are dealing with human emotion, which is uncontrollable at times. The best way to handle it is to look at what you’re facing, head-on. All of these possibilities can be overwhelming, I know. The insurmountable paperwork alone can be astounding, let alone [...]

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Divorce Recovery Advice: Real Estate

July 23, 2009

I saw another article with financial advice for men and women trying to start over after divorce that I want to share with you …………….
(from Newsday.com) Some couples have decided to live in their marital homes after divorce until real estate prices recover. That can be difficult, but (a N.Y. attorney) said in some cases, [...]

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